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Carolyn Abbate, Associate Attorney of the Irving Law Firm – Fairfax Divorce Lawyers
2/8/2026
Carolyn Abbate, Associate Attorney of Fairfax Divorce Lawyers
Carolyn Abbate leads the Family Law Division at our Arlington office, guiding individuals and families through divorce, custody, and support matters with clarity, strength, and insight. An Arlington native, Carolyn brings over 15 years of dedicated legal experience and deep local knowledge to help clients across Northern Virginia navigate complex family transitions.
Carolyn earned her B.A. from the University of Virginia in 2004 and her J.D., cum laude, from George Mason University School of Law in 2009. Early in her career, she was recognized for her commitment to family law, receiving the Virginia State Bar and American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers Family Law Book Award.
Her expertise and dedication have been acknowledged by peers and clients alike. Carolyn has been listed in The Best Lawyers in America (2024), named a Virginia Super Lawyer (2023), and repeatedly recognized as a Top Attorney by Arlington Magazine (2019, 2021–2024). In 2024, she was elected to the Board of Directors for the Arlington County Bar Association, reflecting her leadership within the legal community.
Known for her clear communication, responsiveness, and steady advocacy, Carolyn approaches each case with the goal of helping families move forward with dignity. Whether negotiating settlements or representing clients in court, she ensures that every client feels supported, informed, and empowered throughout the process.
EDUCATION
Law School
J.D., cum laude, George Mason University School of Law (2009)
College
B.A., University of Virginia (2004)
BAR ADMISSION
Virginia
COMMUNITY & PROFESSIONAL ASSOCIATIONS
Arlington County Bar Association CLE Speaker – Contempt & Rule to Show Cause in Family Law Cases: To Reprimand or Remediate?
Virginia State Bar
Arlington County Bar Association, Director
Alexandria City Bar Association
10505 Judicial Drive Suite 300
Fairfax, VA 22030
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